Self-Awareness Coaching
Self-awareness is one of the most valuable gifts we can give ourselves. It is the ability to pause, become curious, and gently understand what is happening within us: our thoughts, emotions, behaviours, patterns, beliefs, and the ways we respond to the world around us. When we begin to truly know ourselves, we create the opportunity for meaningful and lasting change.
My role as a self-awareness coach is not to tell you who you are or what you should do. Instead, I offer a safe, supportive, and non-judgemental space where we can explore your inner world together. I ask thoughtful questions, help you recognise patterns you may not have noticed before, and support you in developing a deeper understanding of yourself.
Often, the challenges we experience in our relationships, work, or daily lives are not random. The people who trigger us, the situations we repeatedly find ourselves in, the emotions that seem disproportionate, or the beliefs that quietly influence our choices can all become valuable clues. Rather than seeing these experiences as problems to simply fix, I see them as invitations to understand ourselves more deeply.
Many of us have learned to disconnect from our emotions or ignore what our bodies are trying to communicate. We become busy, distracted, or accustomed to pushing through discomfort without asking why it is there. Together, we gently reconnect with those signals. While our bodies cannot diagnose emotional causes, they often hold important information about stress, tension, emotional overwhelm, or unmet needs. Learning to listen with curiosity rather than judgement can be a powerful part of personal growth.
Every person is different, which is why I don't follow a rigid formula. Instead, I tailor each session to you, using a variety of evidence-informed reflective practices and mind-body awareness techniques where appropriate. Depending on your needs, we may explore:
- Emotional trigger exploration to understand what activates strong emotional responses and what these reactions may be pointing towards.
- Journalling to uncover recurring thoughts, beliefs, emotions, and patterns.
- Thought observation to become more aware of your inner dialogue without immediately identifying with it.
- Body scanning to notice physical sensations, areas of tension, and how emotions may be experienced in the body.
- Gentle somatic awareness techniques that help reconnect with the present moment and build greater awareness of physical and emotional experiences.
- Mirror work to develop self-compassion, confidence, and a healthier relationship with yourself.
- Values and belief exploration to understand whether the life you're living aligns with who you truly are.
- Mindfulness and grounding practices to help cultivate presence and emotional regulation.
Self-awareness coaching is not about becoming perfect or endlessly analysing yourself. It is about building a kinder relationship with yourself, understanding why you think, feel, and respond the way you do, and creating more conscious choices instead of living on autopilot.
I believe that each of us already carries an incredible capacity for healing, growth, and resilience. Sometimes we simply need someone to walk alongside us, someone who can hold space, ask the right questions, and help us reconnect with the wisdom that is already within us.
Whether you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed, navigating change, struggling with relationships, seeking greater purpose, or simply wanting to understand yourself on a deeper level, self-awareness coaching offers a space to slow down, reflect, and grow.
This journey isn't about changing who you are.
It's about discovering who you've always been beneath the expectations, habits, fears, and stories that no longer serve you.
Dilek,
Founder of ADA
How do I work?
People often ask what approach I use.
The honest answer is that there is no single method that defines my work.
My own journey led me through a wide range of disciplines, traditions, philosophies, therapies, and practices. Along the way, I discovered that every system offers a different lens through which to understand ourselves.
Some focus on the body.
Some focus on the mind.
Some focus on emotions.
Some focus on behaviour.
Some explore spirituality, energy, symbolism, or consciousness.
Some are supported by scientific research.
Others emerge from centuries of tradition and lived experience.
Throughout my search, I explored approaches such as meditation, mindfulness, tantric practices, somatic awareness, breathwork, Traditional Chinese Medicine, Ayurveda, chakra-based systems, Reiki, psychedelic-assisted therapies, intuitive practices, coaching, human bio-field scanning, frequency-based approaches, and many other methods intended to support wellbeing and self-understanding.
I have also spent considerable time studying perspectives from psychology, neuroscience, philosophy, history, and other disciplines that seek to understand human behaviour and human experience.
What I discovered is that no single system contains the whole picture.
Each offers insights.
Each has limitations.
And each person responds differently.
For this reason, I do not work from a fixed formula or predetermined process. Instead, I work from a place of curiosity, awareness, and exploration.
Depending on individual goals, interests, and circumstances, sessions may draw upon a variety of practices and perspectives that support self-awareness, reflection, personal growth, and holistic wellbeing.
The following approaches may be explored individually or integrated where appropriate:
Bio-Well Energy Scanning
A non-invasive assessment tool that offers insights into patterns of stress, balance, and energetic functioning within the body. Bio-Well is used as a complementary awareness tool and is not intended as a medical diagnosis.
Somatic Awareness Practices
Body-based exercises designed to increase awareness of physical sensations, tension patterns, posture, breathing, and the body's responses to stress and emotion.
Mindfulness and Meditation
Practices that cultivate present-moment awareness, observation of thoughts and emotions, and a deeper connection with oneself.
Breath-work
Structured breathing techniques that may support relaxation, emotional awareness, nervous system regulation, and self-exploration.
Coaching and Reflective Inquiry
Guided conversations that encourage self-reflection, greater clarity, exploration of beliefs, behaviours, challenges, goals, and life direction.
Chakra and Energy Awareness
Traditional energetic frameworks used as reflective tools for exploring balance, personal development, emotional wellbeing, and self-understanding.
Traditional Wisdom Systems
Where relevant, perspectives from traditions such as Ayurveda, Traditional Chinese Medicine, and other holistic models may be explored as additional lenses for understanding wellbeing and balance.
Intuitive and Reflective Practices
Approaches that encourage deeper listening, self-observation, symbolic exploration, creativity, and connection with inner experience.
Lifestyle and Environmental Awareness
Exploration of factors such as daily habits, relationships, work-life balance, stress, sleep, nutrition, and environment, and how they may influence overall wellbeing.
Collaboration with Other Practitioners
Over the years, I have had the privilege of learning from and working alongside practitioners from many different backgrounds and specialties. This has reinforced my belief that meaningful support often benefits from multiple perspectives.
Where appropriate, I may collaborate with or refer clients to trusted practitioners whose expertise complements the work we are doing together.
These may include professionals and practitioners working in areas such as health and wellbeing, body-based therapies, Homeopathy, energy practices, counselling, coaching, nutrition, movement, mindfulness, spiritual development, and other holistic approaches.
My intention is not to position ADA as the source of all answers, but rather as part of a broader network of knowledge, experience, and support.
By integrating different perspectives when appropriate, we can often develop a more comprehensive understanding of ourselves and create space for deeper awareness, personal growth, wellbeing, and healing.
Every person's journey is unique, and sometimes the most supportive approach involves drawing upon the strengths of multiple disciplines and practitioners working together.
The practices used within a session are always guided by the individual, their goals, and what feels appropriate and meaningful for them. None of these practices are designed to replace any medical opinion or therapies.

1:1 Sessions
Personalised sessions tailored to your needs.
Initial Session (90 minutes)
- introduction
- Bio-Well scanning
- comprehensive analysis of the results
- creating personal guidance
Individual Session (60 minutes)
- support with integrating the self-awareness and well-being goals
- deeper exploration and reflection
- coaching and wellbeing support
- awareness work
- monitoring changes with Bio-Well
Prices
- 90 minutes initial session £160
- 60 minutes standard session £120
Packages:
- 1 initial session and 4 × standard sessions £600
- 1 initial session and 6 × standard sessions £800
Please contact us for more details about pricing and payment methods.

Session Locations
The environment in which we meet can have a significant impact on how comfortable, open, and present we feel.
For this reason, session locations are arranged according to individual circumstances and preferences whenever possible.
Depending on the nature of the session, meetings may take place:
• In a private consultation room
• At a suitable wellbeing or therapy space
• In a quiet public setting such as a café or community venue
• Outdoors in nature where appropriate
• Online via video call
• In other private settings where suitable arrangements have been agreed
The intention is always to create an environment that feels safe, comfortable, and supportive of the work being undertaken.
All locations are subject to practical considerations, availability, and professional boundaries.

Discovery Session
I offer a complimentary 30-minute introductory session for anyone considering working together.
This conversation provides an opportunity for us to meet, discuss your goals, ask questions, and explore whether my approach feels aligned with what you are seeking.
There is no obligation to continue beyond this session.
The purpose is simply to create space for an open and honest conversation before deciding on any further support.

Ongoing Support
Meaningful change and deeper self-understanding often develop through consistent exploration over time.
For this reason, I offer individual sessions as well as structured support packages for those wishing to commit to a longer-term process.
Packages provide an opportunity to build continuity, deepen reflection, and integrate insights between sessions.
There is no requirement to purchase a package, and clients are welcome to work together on a session-by-session basis.
Accessibility and Supported Sessions
One of the values at the heart of ADA is the belief that meaningful conversations, self-exploration, and personal growth should be as accessible as possible.
I recognise that there are times in life when financial circumstances make it difficult to invest in personal wellbeing, even when support may be needed most.
For this reason, I reserve a limited number of reduced-cost and complimentary sessions for individuals who are genuinely unable to access services due to financial constraints.
There is no complicated application process.
If cost is a barrier, I simply invite you to reach out and have an honest conversation.
While I cannot guarantee availability, I will always do my best to explore options where possible.
This approach is not based on charity.
It is based on the understanding that life moves through different seasons, and that all of us may find ourselves needing support at times when resources are limited.
If you feel that working together could be valuable but finances are preventing you from taking the first step, please don't let that stop you from getting in touch.
Sometimes a single conversation can make a meaningful difference.
Contact Us
Address: Richmond, England, United Kingdom

